Spit or Swallow?

Spit or Swallow? Reasons behind actions…

First off, now that I secretly manipulated you by your sick and twisted curiosity about spitting or swallowing in order for you to come inside and read this blog which actually has nothing to do in regards to the fine art of oral sex, although does have me thinking that maybe eventually I’ll produce an entry dealing with the male psyche and the nothing more than subconscious gratification of swallowing; I sound so feminist, but this entry is about why shy women or men should have the courage to be diverse.

Sometimes we do not even realize that we can get locked into various patterns and repetitions in our lives, which become a routine, like a robot mentality. You go to bed at a “normal” hour, you wake up at a “normal” hour, you do “normal” weekend activities, and so on it becomes sort of like an automatic ignorance towards brainstorming secessions of innovative ideas that make life truly enjoyable. Most people in the world suffer from this automatic ignorance; so do not worry, as you are not alone.

Do you remember when the last time you saw the sun rise? Can you remember when the last time you wore a new hairstyle? Or when was the last time you wore a completely different outfit in public was? Do you not know the answers to these questions? Well if you don’t know the answers, I will play god and answer for you, it’s been too long than and the automatic ignorance is taking over your life and it’s time to break the cycle and fade away the old routine.

If you are trying to get some fire going in your love life, or for some maybe just a spark, trying something new is a very logical reason and I do hope some wild signs are running around in your mind now. Changing things up like wearing a completely different style of clothes or styling your hair differently or altering your daily routine or staying up later or going out to different clubs opens yourself up to meet different men or women for the obvious reason of appearance and location but also the mind altering of your self esteem, and when these variables combine in the end you are attracting a different kind of person than you had normally been attracting and these men or women you may find that they are the very ones you’ve been hoping to find for the longest time.

As I sit and type this at 5am on Easter Sunday thinking about why I decided to stop drinking alcohol for 30 days, I think my suggestions might be a bit clouded. I want to clear some clouds away from in between my words, I am not saying or suggesting go out and dress like a whore, rather suggesting attempt something new in your routine not like going bungee jumping but something you can adapt into real life, as not all of us can go bungee jumping on a daily basis for obvious reasons.

Let’s pretend you are a woman whom normally wears very sexy low cut top or short mini skirts and are completely tired of attracting those egotistical pricks that move in fast like a shark attacking those cute little fish that look like Nemo. Is this your situation? Take the time to dress with more of a classy feel, and go to a less hip but more upscale clubs and see whom you meet and attract now.

Now back to why I am writing this entry, let’s say you are the shy girl whom is always wearing jeans or dress in neutrals. A perfect place to test the change and to experiment with a surprise is usually some sort of work party or large group get together with friends. Today is going to be the day that you can make the surprise, instead of the jeans try putting on a beautiful dress or skirt and instead of neutral colors try strong beautiful colors and you will pleasingly surprise the guys, and will be very shocked at how the guys will sit straighter and will gaze more in your direction, and you will receive more attention and compliments than normally. We all need this.

Maybe your fashion isn’t the issue here; it could be just too much familiarity with family and friends. We all love and enjoy the relationships with family and friends but come on; this fluency of relationships is a perfect breeding ground of contempt ness with the same repetitious routines, hangouts, and conversations. Getting out of the circle and experience new things and meeting new people is healthy and don’t feel ashamed for desiring that. I’m not saying take a world trip, I guess I’m just saying take a short car ride a few hours out of your home base and visit someplace beautiful, cultural or some random coffee shop. This kind of journey places a jolt in your routine, creates a new perspective, and can expand your circle with freshness.

By now you should have some how realized what to do, I would like to say that I have revealed the secret. The most vital point is to give yourself opportunity at trying new things, be diverse with your personality, interests, and your intelligence. You don’t have to like the new things your try and do but you just don’t know until you attempt, without the attempt you will just be left wondering in a world of regret.

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