I’m not sure if you are aware of the modern day tradition or rule in the art of seduction called the 90/10 rule. It’s a rule that is based upon the intent of creating something from suggestion; there is so much power in suggestion, more than you most likely believe.

Even when asking a girl out on a date you can use the power of suggestion without even asking her out on a date. Per example, “hey we should go grab starbucks together sometime,” this is a verbal example of the 90/10 rule, suggesting you should have coffee is pretty much as good as asking to have coffee but minus the rejection because it’s kind of difficult to turn down a suggestion. Most people guy or girl, black or white, American or Asian…it does not matter what kind of human you are the natural reaction in responding will be similar and no will most likely not be your answer in a suggestion.

Most people know the 90/10 rule from watching the film “Hitch” where the rule is used when two people are about ready to kiss. In relation to getting the first kiss is when you move in close to your partner, just 90% of the way and your partner must make the remaining 10% by moving toward your lips. I call this suggestion; unless your partner is a moron they will know what your implying…kiss me.

Being a go-getter: First Kiss

It is all a numbers game in the end and that is why we tend to use numbers as terms like 90/10 and this is just using a ration system that is intimate. The more girls or guys that you talk to will eventually increase the number of dates that you have therefore increasing your chances for romance.

With romance you have seduction and that is the order of operation in which you need to plant your 90/10 seeds for flower to blossom and grow. In order for you to gather favorable odds you need effort, and with effort there are results.

I know it may seem as though I am cramming and stuffing down a crap load of information about ratios and numbers and what not but you must be able to acknowledge when balance is in your favor. I can comprehend the fact that sometimes you might be on the fence and reading all the signs from your partner perfectly, like you think it’s perfect to kiss her and she seems okay with it but if you are not sure you must find out in a very discrete and quiet of way as possible.

The 90/10 lives here, in that insane world of unknown emotion between two people, in a place that you both desire and churn for something but neither of your two souls know what it is the other wants. Eventually you do feel that energy and aura amid the both of you and than it all starts to boil and you understand the pattern. You want to lean in and kiss her or him, have your lips taste their lips, but for some reason you hold back. That reason is your brain telling you it’s not real and is telling you don’t make a fool of yourself but you know you must if you want to make it happen, now pull out the 90/10 rule as this is when it is meant to be used.

Setting

The description of the setting has just been constructed for you, as most individuals have been to this emotional place before but fail to act upon it. Kissing is just an example of the rule as it does apply too much more than that.

Method

Lets say that you are at Rite Aid or Target (nope they are not paying me for the mention but they should) and you are checking out someone super cute and like us all you rather than talking to them first, you kind of do a shadow shopping routine standing next them or going in the same aisles. This is 90% and the 10% is you having them speak to you.

Dialogue

This hot girl or girl now has initiated a conversation with you in the office supplies aisle at Target which is 90% and now is waiting for you, yes you, to make a suggestion, like “hey we should grab starbucks sometime” and that is the 10%.

A Date

Are you now wondering about this coffee date? If it has gone well of course, at the conclusion lean in for the 90% and wait for them 10% for their lips to touch yours.

More than a Kiss

Lets now pretend that you two are alone and being intimate with a lot of kissing, instead of you attempting to remove his or her clothing why don’t you take off your shirt first 90% and now if they take their clothes off them self 10%

You got to feel the gut instinct, if you are nervous I would say you are on the correct road and you must take a gamble if you are searching for the “apple”. If seduction overpowers you then you are there, so lean in and be prepared for the gifts under the Christmas tree as every pleasure has a price.

Awkwardness

Girls experience far less of these awkward moments with the 90/10 rule, girl’s tend to have far better instincts that are much more trustworthy than that of a guy’s instincts. Guys commonly make the mistake that if a girl is having a good time, it means that the girl want to be with him, but all you guys know that isn’t true.

Guys you must realize girls are not always on the same page, sometimes not even in the same book, and if this is the case well the rule doesn’t apply at all, so be prepared to tell a joke or make her laugh or some off the wall remark or comment as laughter does bring people closer together in the end. Oh by the way, if she didn’t lean forward you should lean back as you tell the joke, just so you don’t look you know completely stupid. Also if she didn’t even do a 1% lean well, I hope your smile was nice and breathe smelled like a free mint from El Torrito and you kept your car running because you will probably leave shortly.

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