If you want him to call you back, you have provide the signal very clearly

A question that I get asked a lot from women, mostly beautiful ones besides questions dealing with clothes or wanting to hang out with me, okay the second part might be a lie but the number one question is “why doesn’t he call me back? Why is it when I give my number he does not call or even send me a text message?”

A couple things first must be determined before I dive into this, does this happen often? If it does happen often I would look at myself first before we continue because maybe it is something you are giving off in some sort of remorseful fashion. The entire process starts with you ladies, men usually only approach women if they are attracted to them from a physical standpoint. We all know this!!! If a man approaches you it’s not because you are a doctor or lawyer, it’s because he finds you attractive.

Approach me Signal

Remember when a man approaches you he is doing so because he is attracted to you but he is propelled to approach you because he has felt that you provided a signal. What signal did you send? Trust me it may be something you are completely unaware of like a simple smile or 5 second gaze, we men can and will always read into these signals as it’s just our human nature. So if you are in a situation in which a guy is flirting with you or attempting to flirt with you and you have no interest, you should blow him off. The first reason in which a guy might not call back is after the exchange of numbers, he goes home and does not feel you were into him. When the initial conversation is taking place, the man is in a high state, adrenaline is pumping and sometimes his interest at that moment is higher than in reality, and after he walks away he might be pondering various scenarios in his mind and think that maybe you were not interested in him. If you want him to call please make sure you give him that signal, as your interest will increase his interest.

Sleeps with you Than Doesn’t Call Back

Insecurity is the number one reason, but also some guys are great at talking you into the sack but have no follow up game plan but usually those guys aren’t worth your time anyways. A question you should though ask yourself is “Did I treat this man like a one night stand?”

You may have been sexual the entire night, thinking it would be fun and if he sees this signal he tends to think that you only want sex and nothing more. Us men are not mind readers and if you send the “lets have sex now” vibe, he will for sure show up with bells and whistles, if you send the don’t even hug me vibe he will see that too.

Men Are Insecure – Just Like Everyone

If the man that you slept with is not a good catch he will know it long before you. He knows if he is leading a girl on to get her in bed, and fears her finding out that he lives just an average life. Men are secure in their manhood but the social dynamics of courtship is what men can be insecure about. By calling back he knows he will have to reveal a little more about himself that he is unhappy with doing as well as possibly having to keep or make some sort of promises all for trying to get your attention.

Why did he not call back for a second date? Example; you meet in public, give each other you numbers, have a first phone call that lasts an hour, setup and go on a first date…no call back. Hm? Hm? Going back to what I claimed earlier, maybe your vibe wasn’t felt, or he kept thinking and hoping that it would appear but got down to spending money and nothing in return. Hey I don’t mean the return as in making love to him, but can be a simple peck on the cheek or just saying, “I want to see you again”, remember show interest and stroke his ego and he will call you back.

Money Doesn’t Matter if she is Reciprocating

I know some men with loads of cash and have told me money doesn’t matter as long as she reciprocates, if she isn’t why spend a dime. Another reason he may not call back is that he has judged you. You might just be a girl whom takes it slow but he might view a girl whom just wants free meals because she is a beautiful women. Men tend not to like the companionships of users, I’m saying all women try to get a free meal sometimes as I do know many cute girls that never go on dates for a free meal but when I guy spots the girl that is a user he tends not to call back…FYI.

Women you have all the control, so when a man doesn’t call you back, you either don’t want him to or he is just doing what you told him too by your signals…

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