So I was going to compose an article about 7 tips or questions to ask your lover to see where they stand in the relationship but screw that let us be flirts.

Imagine being at some random party, and boom just appearing someone so stunning is standing right next to you very close, too close but the beauty kind of makes that personal space thing okay if it is violated. It is a bit awkward at first as each of you keep glancing up and catching one anothers gaze, eyes locking into one another both of you are mentally deciding whom shall make the first vocal response that will break the ice. Well in my story, you will go and make the chat as they stand in the mirror position as your, just staring at you as you chat away, playing with there hair, the biggest damn grin you could imagine on someone. You are right this person is into you; they like you and is flirting. How do I know? Body language, and I think I’m an expert in flirting as well.

Flirting is the primary key to dating, you have no successful date if you have no flirting, yes success is really based upon an individual themselves as we all have different definitions of what success might be but use your brain here. The concept of flirting is fun, exciting, wild, entertaining, positive, but mainly and most importantly it is to give out those signals that say “I am fucking interested in you if you did not know.” I feel that healthy amount of flirting should be apart of your every day lives, please do not get the impression that I am promoting the concept of threatening fidelity, I am actually not taking a stance on that at the moment. Flirting from hands on experience brings people closer together. You can all be good a flirting, it just takes practice.

Being a flirt is something that you are aware of and are pretty proud of it as well. The joy of flirting and a response of liking is very sexy and feels good too. Providing attention too people, smiling, touching, soft whispers is what means flirting. It is a tool that can be very rewarding in the correct situation but be very deadly in the wrong one. Please do not be overwhelming that is not a flirt but rather a sick person or sexual predator.

There are some key points to watch for when you flirt to determine if the person is at all interested in you. Pay attention to the fact that the person is copying your body movements while not taking their eyes off of you. That is key.

Eye Contact
Dilated pupils with maintained eye contact arched eye brow winking rapid eye movement

Hair and mouth
Playing with hair touching your hair teeth flashing heavy smiling lip licking puckering lips touching teeth with tongue

Body Movement
Thrusting of chest or breast mirroring posture leaning in towards you display flesh of arm or thigh

Touching
Some excuse to touch you offer to place food in your mouth playing with their hands then yours

Way they speak
Tone and speed mirrors yours questioning tones laughter